Sexual Abuse Counselling Services
Discussing experiences of sexual abuse or assault can be deeply challenging and emotional. At Happy Peeps, we provide sexual abuse counselling in the Gold Coast area with utmost care and compassion. We understand that you may have never shared your story before, and our professional therapists are committed to creating a safe and supportive environment for you.
How We Support Survivors
Our experienced counsellors recognise the intense emotions survivors may face, including fear, isolation, trauma, and overwhelming pain. During and after your sessions, we equip you with strategies to manage your emotions and reduce the impact of past experiences on your daily life. Our goal is to help you:
- Address negative thought patterns and behaviours.
- Shift from being a victim to regaining control over your life.
- Foster healthy relationships and rebuild confidence.
Understanding Sexual Abuse
Sexual abuse encompasses a wide range of non-consensual or harmful actions, including:
Types of Sexual Abuse
- Rape or forced sexual activity.
- Touching without consent.
- Use of threats or physical force to gain compliance.
- Coercing someone into sexual acts or degrading behaviours.
- Exposure to unwanted pornography or explicit material.
- Sharing intimate photos, videos, or content without permission.
- Unwanted sexual comments, jokes, or gestures.
- Withholding sex as punishment or using it to manipulate.
- Using social media for harassing or unsolicited sexual interactions.
The Importance of Consent
Consent is a cornerstone of healthy sexual relationships. Key points to remember:
- Always ensure mutual agreement before engaging in sexual activity.
- Respect a partner’s right to say “no”—even in long-term relationships or marriage.
- A person under the influence of drugs or alcohol cannot give valid consent.
Emotional and Psychological Effects of Abuse
If you’ve experienced sexual abuse, you might be dealing with:
- Flashbacks, nightmares, or intrusive memories.
- Feelings of shame, guilt, or anger.
- Anxiety, depression, or low self-esteem.
- Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).
- Challenges with intimacy, sexuality, or relationships.
- Parenting difficulties or struggles with children.
- Self-harming behaviours or thoughts of suicide.
Recognising Abuse in Children or Adolescents
Children and teenagers often do not verbalise abuse due to fear or shame. However, behavioural changes can indicate they may be experiencing abuse.
Warning Signs in Children and Teens:
- Sudden weight changes or disordered eating habits.
- Persistent sadness, lack of energy, or trouble sleeping.
- Avoidance of social interactions or withdrawal from activities.
- Self-harm or expressions of suicidal thoughts.
- Substance use or frequent use of alcohol or drugs.
- Refusing to see specific people or attend certain places.
- Signs of physical harm, such as bruising or injuries.
- Diagnosis of STIs or unexplained pregnancies.
Spotting Red Flags in Relationships
A partner may be abusive or controlling if they:
- Pressure someone into unwanted sexual activities.
- Refuse to use contraception or protection during intimacy.
- Inflict physical harm or manipulate with threats.
- Isolate the person from friends or family.
- Use alcohol or drugs to impair the ability to give consent.
- Display controlling or coercive behaviours.
How We Can Help
At Happy Peeps Gold Coast, we are here to listen, support, and guide you toward healing. Our counselling services provide:
- A Safe and Judgement-Free Space: Share your experiences at your own pace.
- Emotional Resilience Tools: Learn strategies to manage triggers and overwhelming emotions.
- Pathways to Healing: Rebuild your self-esteem and create a positive, healthy future.
If you or someone you love is experiencing the effects of sexual abuse, know that help is available. Contact our Gold Coast team today to start your journey towards recovery and empowerment.